The Top 8 Best Magic Spells For Self Love: To Do At Home

We often think of love as an outward emotion, experience, or gesture towards others. Love has been communicated to us in the terms of giving to others and rarely to ourselves.

Self-love has been a buzzword recently, and rightfully so, you shouldn't ignore showing yourself all the expressions of love, because only then can you properly love another person.

Self-love is self-care, your attitude towards yourself tells people how to treat you. And no, it is not selfish.

You have heard a lot about 'Love spells' and fulfilling your need for a genuine and dreamy lover through magic.

But how about self love spells? Has it ever occurred to you that magic can help you love yourself so fiercely, not just for you but also be able to spread love to other people? After all, you cannot give what you do not have!

The best part? A spell or two can help you add to the beauty of your life because you deserve to live life with passion.

Why You Should Perform Self-love Spells

These spells are great for forming deeper connections with yourself and changing your mindset to help you live a more fulfilling life.

Incorporating these spells into your daily life as routines hold a lot of power and can be life-changing as they can help you pay attention to yourself in the most tender way.

After you have learned how to work these spells and rituals, you will find them handy on days when you don't feel your best, they can be rejuvenating and spirit-lifting.

The best time to cast these spells is in Waxing Moon.

But as we know, magic is not fixed, you can perform these rituals anytime you feel like it!

The Most Useful Herbs To Perform Self-love Spells With

Herbs are earth and nature's gifts to us, you can harness their various wonderful powers.

The following herbs are some of the most common and useful ones; lavender, mint, rose petals, basil, lemon, sandalwood.

The Best Candles To Use In Casting Self-love Spells

It's important to set the proper tone for any magical spells and rituals you are performing, same applies here, to attract the proper energy to get the most effective results, the best candles to use are; red, orange, white, or pink.

Now that you have a general idea of the Whys, Whens, and Whats you need to cast a spell to love yourself, let's look at some of the best spells you can cast to get you feeling amazing every day.

Self Love Candle Spell

You can perform this spell first thing in the morning or last thing before you retire for the night.

You'll need;

• A rose quartz crystal
• An agate slice
• Himalayan pink salt
• Rose, orange, sandalwood, or jasmine essential oil
• A lighter
• A birthday candle

How to do this:

Select the color of the candle that speaks to you the most. The next step is to consecrate the candle with your Essential oil in an upward motion. Melt the base of the candle over the Agate slice using a lighter, then press the candle on the slice to make it stick.

Sprinkle the Himalayan salt in a circle, this signifies protection, then set your Rose quartz beside the candle to intensify your intentions. Light up your candle and stare into the flame.

As you're gazing, recall, and concentrate on all the things you love about yourself, tune out all the invasive negative thoughts. Do this until the candlelight goes out, don't blow it out.

Self Love Elixir

Try this spell when you want to shower yourself with love and tenderness!

You'll need;

• Water
• Whole cinnamon sticks
• A glass jar
• A marker
• A kettle

How to do this;

To start, draw a symbol/sign, or write affirmations that mean something to you with a marker on the bottom of the jar. Next, fill up your jar with water and place it outside, under the shade of a tree, or in the garden to absorb energy from the earth for at least three hours.

After this, pour this water into a kettle to bring it to a boil. While waiting for your water to boil, hold your cinnamon sticks in your hands and envision a memory where you felt pure love.

Allow yourself to feel this love all over your body as it spreads.

In every 8 ounces of water, put a stick into the water. Let the sticks soak in the water for about ten minutes, after which you can pour yourself a mug. Enjoy and savor your cinnamon elixir.

Self-Love Altar

You can make an altar dedicated to you, an altar that reminds you to take care and to worship yourself.

You'll need:

• Small/Medium Mirror
• Rose or Clear Quartz, Amethyst, orange calcite, citrine, carnelian, or any crystals that fascinate you
• A piece of paper or modeling clay
• Art supplies (glitter, markers, or colored pencils).

How to do this:

To begin, you can set the mood by putting on some music, in a candlelit environment, you can also do this while sipping on something tasteful.

Lay a mirror on a tabletop. Set a crystal in any design you fancy, just follow your intuition. With your art supplies, create custom art that highlights the best parts of yourself.

Place this artwork in the center of your altar and always think uplifting and positive thoughts whenever you see this altar.

New Moon Ritual

You'll need:

• Tarot deck
• Pen
• Journal
• White candle

How to do this:

This ritual should be started on the day of the new moon for five days. At the beginning of each day, take out one tarot card, look at the meaning and relate what the card represents to your work.

You can also focus on the picture on the card and what it means to you.

At the end of the fifth night, lay out all the cards you have picked on your altar, to remember how they have inspired you.

Self-confidence Spell

You'll need:

• 7 candles of different colors
• An empty container

How to do this:

This ritual is done over seven days, each color of candle representing each day. It would help if you picked out colors that relate to bits of your personality.

At the close of each day, light up a candle, visualize the way that color symbolizes an element of your personality and why that part is so important. Then revel in the radiance of that knowledge, as you do this, say your affirmations out loud.

When your candle has burnt out, put it in a container, and on the last and seventh day, charge them under the moonlight, where it will signify an epitome of your awesomeness.

Self-Love Spell Jar

You'll need:

• Jar with lid
• Brown sugar
• Rose petals
• Pink Himalayan salt
• Lavender
• Hibiscus flowers
• Rosemary
• Sage leaves
• Cinnamon
• Peppercorns
• Rose quartz
• Pink candle (to seal the jar)

How to do this:

Each object should embody an intention/desire for you and as you put each object in the jar, proclaim what you want to get from it.

When you get to the bay leaves, with a permanent marker, write clear affirmations.

Once you've put all the objects in, seal the jar with candlelight, let the wax trickle to make a wax seal to cover your self-love jar. Before the wax solidifies, set Rose quartz into the wax.

Renewal Bath Spell

You'll need:

• Rose petals
• Cinnamon powder
• One white candle

How to do this:

To start, pour four cups of water in a pan and bring to a boil, next, goes in rose petals and cinnamon. After boiling, let it steep for 15 minutes.

Light up your white candle and fill up your bath with warm water, add your boiled mixture in.

As you take a bath, call to mind your attitude towards yourself, focus on positivity and let the negativity flow out into the water from your body. Say your favorite affirmations over and over, then unwind and stay calm.

Recharge Spell

You'll need:

• A bowl of lukewarm water
• Essential oil

How to do this:

In a bowl of lukewarm water, add a few drops of your chosen oil. Put one palm up, upwards to the sky, and one palm over the water. With the palm upwards, visualize the universe energies entering you and say, "I ask for the energy to stay active and healthy". Imagine the energy moving towards your other palm transferring the energy into the water.

When you feel satisfied with the charge, wash your hands in the bowl. This spell can be done repeatedly to recharge your energy.

What's next?

These spells are beginner-friendly and can be done from the comfort of your home, however, if you'd feel more comfortable with the help of a professional spellcaster, you can contact Kasamba, you can have your pick of professionals happy to help you get started on magical love!